Ghosts

"I was browsing the bookstore recently and came across this interesting looking book, that I didn’t know I needed, but definitely wanted. I had never heard of it, but in reading the synopsis it became clear that it had so many interesting themes I am looking to discover further…connection, loneliness, modernity, isolation. The woman in the story, Nina, only becomes more stunningly, blisteringly aware of all she has been resisting to acknowledge after being ghosted by a man she meets and hits it off with from a dating app. It all seems to be going perfectly until he ceases all communication with her: a predicament many may have found themselves challengingly in. When someone ghosts, if the situation is not abusive, or dangerous, and especially if there is a real life relationship, then it is the easy, cowardly way out. The way that doesn’t stop to question how the other person will feel, but only selfishly acknowledges the ghoster’s immediate needs, one being to flee at the first sign of discomfort. Everyone deserves a response and not to be left to question themselves and it is destructive and tragic that some, like the character Nina comes across in this book, have turned on their ability to be decent and not leave another in a state of emotional despair. I can’t get away from how timely the themes this book promises to touch on are 💕I loved exploring Nina’s journey as a character and a woman who is forced to go on a journey of self-realization, which is undoubtedly uncomfortable and sometimes even painful, in order to incrementally find a way to come out on the other side with hope for a brighter day ☀️✨"

"These characters were instantly loveable and the story was extremely heartwarming. "

"Overall, good book. For me, it got a little dull at times but picked back up. It had a very interesting and relatable message intertwined with the storyline. Slow book, but good. "

"I adore Dolly alderton and this book is a perfect example of why. It’s witty, insightful and funny. I loved it!!"

"Wow! If you are (or have ever) been through the adventure that is online dating, this book is for you! So real but also reminds you of the beautiful relationships we have with the many wonderful people in our lives."

"LOVE THIS BOOK. "

"I found this book so relevant in today’s society that it saddens me to its truth. I’ve reflected on this book several times since I’ve finished it. I feel even more grateful that I’m not single trying to navigate this world of social media. And it makes me nervous for my kids. With 2 in their twenties and one who is still in high school, their experience with relationships is slim. Since I’ve read this book I have proceeded to have a full fledged discussion about the issue of ghosting and how it really is an act of cowardice to not back out of a relationship gracefully through actual communication. Special thanks to NetGalley for giving me the opportunity to read this ARC in exchange for my honest review."

"Too fluffy for me. Felt like it didn’t quite go anywhere? (Can’t remember the ending) "

"I found this book so relevant in today’s society that it saddens me to its truth. I’ve reflected on this book several times since I’ve finished it. I feel even more grateful that I’m not single trying to navigate this world of social media. And it makes me nervous for my kids. With 2 in their twenties and one who is still in high school, their experience with relationships is slim. Since I’ve read this book I have proceeded to have a full fledged discussion about the issue of ghosting and how it really is an act of cowardice to not back out of a relationship gracefully through actual communication. Special thanks to NetGalley for giving me the opportunity to read this ARC in exchange for my honest review."

"I enjoyed this book!"