Rules for Being a Girl
Books | Young Adult Fiction / Romance / Contemporary
4.2
(320)
Candace Bushnell
Katie Cotugno
From the #1 New York Times–bestselling author of Sex and the City, a novel that “shines a light on the pressures of being a girl and the double standards” (Kirkus Reviews).It starts before you can even remember: You learn the rules for being a girl. . . . Marin has always been good at navigating these unspoken guidelines. A star student and editor of the school paper, she dreams of getting into Brown University. Marin’s future seems bright—and her young, charismatic English teacher, Mr. Beckett, is always quick to admire her writing and talk books with her.But when “Bex” takes things too far and comes on to Marin, she’s shocked and horrified. Had she somehow led him on? Was it her fault?When Marin works up the courage to tell the administration what happened, no one believes her. She’s forced to face Bex in class every day. Except now, he has an ax to grind.But Marin isn’t about to back down. She uses the school newspaper to fight back and she starts a feminist book club at school. She finds allies—and even romance—in the most unexpected people, like Gray Kendall, who she’d always dismissed as just another lacrosse bro.As things heat up at school and in her personal life, Marin must figure out how to take back the power and write her own rules.“An engrossing and engaging read, filled with dynamic characters.” —Associated Press“Readers will be glad for this take from two powerhouse creators.” —Booklist“This fast-paced narrative . . . identifies the insidious impact of rape culture, and encourages readers to take a stand against everyday injustices.” —School Library Journal
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Author
Candace Bushnell
Pages
294
Publisher
HarperCollins
Published Date
2020-04-07
ISBN
0062803395 9780062803399
Ratings
Google: 5
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"I mean you kind of know where this is headed to, every stop of the way. The only unrealistic part to me was there was actually a boy that supported her thru it all. It’s a great book to give to teens/young adult women who might be gaslighted into thinking they cause more harm discussing SA than the person who caused harm - only unbelievable part to me was the overly understandable jock boyfriend (but his background kind of justified it) it kind of reminded me of Cruel Summer (tv show)"
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"I picked this book for my teen girls to read about the hardships and inequities that females have (and still do!) face because of their gender. For this protagonist, her age (high school student) also works against her even though she is a straight A student with a reputation for doing the right thing…she is seen as less credible than her adult male teacher, the school administration fails her. Think about a the limited voice of a student who has less then stellar academics or reputation! "
"Okay, this was really good. I did judge a few of the characters’ decisions for a moment, but I know they made those decisions in order for the book to be more realistic. Honestly it scares me a little how realistic this book was- men doing things that don’t affect them but affect the women around them, a man getting angry at the girl when it was his fault the situation happened in the first place, girls getting treated badly and their experiences being ignored because “there wasn’t enough proof” or “she was asking for it”... it all hit a bit too close to the reality of the world. Not in a bad way though, I think this showed the world as it is and didn’t sugarcoat anything- and thank god for that. Overall it was a good book with a good message that made me angry, but in that “time to smash the patriarchy” way.<br/>"