Member of the Family
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Dianne Lake
Deborah Herman
In this poignant and disturbing memoir of lost innocence, coercion, survival, and healing, Dianne Lake chronicles her years with Charles Manson, revealing for the first time how she became the youngest member of his Family and offering new insights into one of the twentieth century’s most notorious criminals and life as one of his "girls."At age fourteen Dianne Lake—with little more than a note in her pocket from her hippie parents granting her permission to leave them—became one of "Charlie’s girls," a devoted acolyte of cult leader Charles Manson. Over the course of two years, the impressionable teenager endured manipulation, psychological control, and physical abuse as the harsh realities and looming darkness of Charles Manson’s true nature revealed itself. From Spahn ranch and the group acid trips, to the Beatles’ White Album and Manson’s dangerous messiah-complex, Dianne tells the riveting story of the group’s descent into madness as she lived it.Though she never participated in any of the group’s gruesome crimes and was purposely insulated from them, Dianne was arrested with the rest of the Manson Family, and eventually learned enough to join the prosecution’s case against them. With the help of good Samaritans, including the cop who first arrested her and later adopted her, the courageous young woman eventually found redemption and grew up to lead an ordinary life.While much has been written about Charles Manson, this riveting account from an actual Family member is a chilling portrait that recreates in vivid detail one of the most horrifying and fascinating chapters in modern American history.Member of the Family includes 16 pages of photographs.
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Author
Dianne Lake
Pages
400
Publisher
HarperCollins
Published Date
2017-10-24
ISBN
0062695606 9780062695604
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""But that's what it means to be in a cult: You lose a part of yourself to someone else or to a group, so that your entire mind no longer belongs to you." <br/><br/>Member of the Family is a fascinating & haunting read. Dianne Lake is a former Manson Girl, and she goes to very intense levels to be open with the world. I'm impressed by her honesty, and grateful that she chose to share her story.<br/><br/>The book is sad, and is very relatable to my teenage years. Obviously my story is not the same AT ALL, but it's very easy for me to see how Dianne ended up where she did. I felt a lot of empathy for her because I could have seen myself making similar choices to Dianne's. <br/><br/>This book is quite dark, and a lot of rough topics are covered - like domestic violence, sexual assault, drug use, neglectful parents, etc. If you don't want to read about these things, be aware that the book goes into pretty graphic detail. It does make sense with the topic of the book, though - I'm not saying that it's unnecessary, but it can be overwhelming at times. <br/><br/>The book did slow down in the last half (at least for me), but I was still interested in the story. It was a good read overall, and I'm glad to have read it. Thank you so much to William Morrow for sending me an early copy in exchange for an honest review!"
"I have to echo what most other 3 star and less reviewers have noted. Dianne's life merits documentation, but the author charged with doing so focuses a bit too much on some salacious details to an unnecessary and sometimes unnerving degree. Very glad that Dianne was able to find safety and a true sense of home for herself, but wish she'd had a stronger author for her autobiography."