Down the Drain
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Julia Fox
A NEW YORK TIMES BESTSELLER The hotly anticipated book from “one of the all-time pop-culture greats” (New York magazine) that chronicles her shocking life and unyielding determination to not only survive but achieve her dreams. Julia Fox is famous for many things: her captivating acting, such as her breakout role in the film Uncut Gems; her trendsetting style, including bleached eyebrows, exaggerated eyeshadow, and cutout dresses; her mastery of social media, where she entertains and educates her millions of followers. But all these share the trait for which she is most famous: unabashedly and unapologetically being herself. This commitment to authenticity has never been more on display than in Down the Drain. With writing that is both eloquent and accessible, Fox recounts her turbulent path to cultural supremacy: her parents’ volatile relationship that divided her childhood between Italy and New York City and left her largely raising herself; a possessive and abusive drug-dealing boyfriend whose torment continued even from within Rikers Island; her own trips to jail as well as to a psychiatric hospital; her work as a dominatrix that led to a complicated entanglement with a sugar daddy; a heroin habit that led to New Orleans trap houses and that she would kick only after the fatal overdose of her best friend; her own near-lethal overdoses and the deaths of still more friends from drugs and suicide; an emotionally explosive, tabloid-dominating romance with a figure she dubs “The Artist”; a whirlwind, short-lived marriage and her trials as a single parent striving to support her young son. Yet as extraordinary as her story is, its universality is what makes it so powerful. Fox doesn’t just capture her improbable evolution from grade-school outcast to fashion-world icon, she captures her transition from girlhood to womanhood to motherhood. Family and friendship, sex and death, violence and love, money and power, innocence and experience—it’s all here, in raw, remarkable, and riveting detail. More than a year before the book’s publication, Fox’s description of it as “a masterpiece” in a red carpet interview went viral. As always, she was just being honest. Down the Drain is a true literary achievement, as one-of-a-kind as its author.
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Author
Julia Fox
Pages
336
Publisher
Simon and Schuster
Published Date
2023-10-10
ISBN
1668011522 9781668011522
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"Full disclosure: Yes, I judged her harshly over that affair with The Antisemitic Arsehole, but am so glad I got over myself and read Julia Fox’s memoir.
I have always loved bad-ass women — especially those who not only have overcome multiple adversities in life but also have succeeded in their personal ambitions. In the case of Julia Fox, to see someone self-made break through an industry inundated with nepo-babies is particularly inspiring.
There’s such strength in the vulnerability Fox shares with the reader. She shares with us what it’s like to experience childhood being ping-ponged around between estranged parents and their lovers, between grandparents and diametrically opposed cultures and continents, between friends who are chosen as the family and stability she yearned for and the betrayal experienced by when some of those chosen family members behaved in counterfeit ways like her biological ones.
And then there’s the chosen family members who were true, friends who showed her the love and compassion they might not have been capable of giving themselves — attempting to weather stormy emotions with white powders from bindles, with black tar from glassine baggies and balloons tied in double-knots. I know a thing or two about those lies: those self-betrayals sold in glassine baggies, those coping mechanisms that are anything but.
As someone who’s lost too many of my own loved ones from suicides and overdoses, my heart went out to the author in a way I wasn’t expecting when I started this autobiography. Big thanks to my book-loving friend Samantha for the recommendation!
Julia Fox has unmistakably manifested the life she’s living today. I’m a firm believer in manifestation, as well. That being stated — dear universe, hear this: I’m ready for you to send a copy of Julia’s book PTSD into my grubby little claws 📚❤️"
"Fox wrote an impressive autobiography detailing a pretty traumatic childhood. Themes include: abuse, drug addiction, and intense interpersonal relationships. I came to the book hoping to learn more about Fox’s career/impact beyond her immediate circle but that’s def not what this book is. The biography really hones in on the first 20(ish) years of her life rather than work/career. I know much more about Fox’s childhood than I did before, but about the same amount (which is, nothing) about her present/work. "
"This book was so intense and I could not put this book down. TW on drug use and SA. I have so much for respect for Julia and how candid and honest she is about her life. Highly recommend! "
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"An insanely in depth woman who’s lived so many lives in her short 30 years. Possibly my favorite read yet"
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"So much depth in her book truly felt like a deep dive into her life. Make sure to check trigger warnings there’s a lot going on in the book. "
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